The Solo Travel Dilemma: A Deliciously Selfish Adventure
I embarked on a solo journey through Italy for six weeks, from the historic alleys of Bologna down to the vibrant heart of Sicily, wasn't just a travel plan—it was a leap into a profound personal adventure. This expedition through Italy's heartlands and coastal gems was an enlightening voyage that offered me a unique blend of freedom, self-discovery, and the occasional challenge, wrapped in the stunning tapestry of Italian culture, cuisine, and history. Solo travel, as I've learned, is a deeply personal experience, rich with opportunities for growth, brimming with moments of introspection, and sprinkled with the joys and trials of navigating a world where every decision starts and ends with you.
The decision to travel alone stirred a mixture of curiosity and concern among my circle of friends and loyal followers. How did I manage? What was it like to dine alone, explore alone, and move from city to city without a friend by my side? The answers to these questions are layered, complex, and woven with countless stories of moments both sublime and challenging. First of all, in pure transparency - I always thought I’d be travelling Italy with m
Let’s start with the honesty: embarking on a solo journey wasn’t cheap. Without someone to share the expenses, every cost, from accommodations to meals and even the simple pleasure of a gelato on a sun-drenched piazza, was solely mine. Yet, amidst the expenses and logistical challenges, the rewards of such an adventure were immeasurable. The freedom to wake with the sun or meander through ancient streets with no agenda but my own curiosity was liberating. It was a journey not just across Italy, but into the depths of my own independence and resilience.
My preparation for this solo venture was meticulous, fueled by a blend of excitement and the sobering realization of the responsibility I was undertaking. Safety was paramount—I chose accommodations that promised ease of access to the buzzing life of city centers, ensuring I was never too isolated. Staying connected was another crucial aspect; an eSim was my lifeline, keeping me a message away from friends and family and offering a sense of security in the sprawling unknown. Packing was an exercise in minimalism and practicality. Every item in my suitcase was a balance between necessity and luxury, always with the knowledge that whatever I took, I'd be carrying on my own through cobblestone streets, up staircases, and onto public transport. This journey, marked by its beginning in Bologna’s historic richness and ending in Sicily’s dramatic landscapes, was more than a series of destinations; it was a voyage of personal discovery, a solo narrative unfolding in one of the world's most captivating settings.
My Solo Travel Mantras:
Safety First: I ensured all accommodations were centrally located to avoid late-night walks in secluded areas.
Always Connected: An eSim kept me in touch with friends also traveling in Europe, providing a sense of security and connection.
Travel Light: If I couldn't carry it, it didn't come with me. This rule proved invaluable for mobility and convenience.
The Cons: The Bittersweet Bite
Limited Culinary Expeditions: The joy of sharing a variety of dishes is missed when dining alone, making me often wish for a companion to explore the full range of local cuisine.
Selfie Overload: My social feeds were filled with selfies, lacking the shared memories captured in photos taken with friends or family.
Navigating Solitude: While solitude allowed for deep self-reflection, there were moments I craved someone to share in the awe and experiences.
The Pros: The Sweet Taste of Freedom
Undisputed Bathroom Bliss: The luxury of having my own bathroom was a small but significant pleasure of solo travel.
Itinerary Autonomy: The freedom to make spontaneous decisions without needing consensus was liberating, leading to unexpected adventures.
Deep Connections: Solo status often led to more meaningful interactions with locals and fellow travelers, enriching my journey with unexpected friendships.
Embracing the Solo Journey
Traveling solo through Italy wasn't just an exercise in tourism; it was a journey into the depths of my own resilience, curiosity, and the joys of discovering the unknown. The experience was transformative, revealing layers of myself I hadn't known existed.
The Segue: Savour the Slow
Recognizing the value and challenges of solo travel inspired the creation of Savour the Slow. This retreat is designed for those seeking the depth of solo travel with the added dimension of community. It's about combining the soul-searching journey of traveling alone with the enriching experience of making genuine connections. Savour the Slow offers a space to discover, reflect, and grow together, embodying the spirit of solo travel in a shared adventure.